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  5 Tips To Move Forward In A Relationship After Cheating Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.) When we fall in love, there is nothing quite like it. When the person we love loves us back, we feel like we have it all. However, hearing "I cheated on you" or "I cheated on my girlfriend/boyfriend" from the person we love can change a relationship fast and make us feel hopeless. Some individuals consider infidelity a deal breaker and believe "Once a cheater always a cheater." However, studies have shown that it is possible to have a happy relationship with someone after cheating, and many relationships have worked through infidelity. "Some individuals have cheated in the past but never cheat again, vice versa." Are you wondering how to repair your relationship after infidelity? Whether you believe "Once A Cheater Always A Cheater" or not, it's your right to feel that way. Personally, I consider cheating a deal breaker, but I respect that e

  8 Reasons Love Can Feel Draining or Exhausted  Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)    Have you ever fallen in love? If you have, you know that there isn't anything else like it. We experience so many different feelings that it can feel unreal at times. We are waiting for the other shoe to drop, but hoping it doesn't. Love brings excitement, happiness, worry, and sometimes sadness. These emotions are a normal part of a loving relationship.    When we start a new relationship and fall in love, we are like a kid in a candy store. If we work on our relationship, it will grow and could be a lifetime commitment. However, if we don't, and things start to change, it can go sour fast.    Love is associated with excitement, happiness, worry, and sometimes sadness, but you should never feel scared, fearful, bored, or drained. Feeling these emotions is not something we want to experience, as it could indicate that your relationship may be headed down the path of no return. So, what causes

  8 tips to get over an Ex Wrote by: Rose Joseph (J.J) Have you ever been in a relationship that didn't work out, and after the breakup, you still find yourself thinking about them and unable to move on? It could be because you still have feelings for them, or do not know what went wrong or why. This happens to more of us than we like to think about, and picking the situation into a thousand pieces doesn't help. Where do we even start? How do we move on and get over that person? When we ask our friends, they tell us, "Just forget them!" However, it isn't that simple, or I'm sure we would have. So, is there a way or some form of tips that we could use that could help us move on? The simple answer is yes, however, it isn't easy, and it isn't going to happen overnight. After all, there had to be true feelings involved for us to have a hard time moving on .  So, here is where you can start!    1. Accept that it is over; The first step in getting over a bre

  10 Reasons Why Relationships & Marriages End In Divorce or Separates! Wrote By: Rose Joseph (J.J.) When we find that one person with whom we can envision a future, we believe it will last forever. When we witness other couples going through divorce, separation, or relationship failures, we assure ourselves that it will never happen to us. The truth is, it can happen to us too, and to any relationship or couple. We've all heard the saying, 'We have to work at it to make it work.' Believe me, that is 100% true. The moment we stop trying, things can fall apart faster than we realize. Sadly, many relationships start with some form of deception or gaslighting just to make the other person like us. We don't realize at the time that this can be harmful to the relationship, but eventually, the truth comes out.  So, why do some relationships and marriages work while others don't? I've asked several couples who have been through divorce or separation to gain a bette

  How To Find Genuine Love! Wrote By: Rose Joseph (J.J.) As we age, our focus shifts towards finding genuine love. Physical appearance is no longer the sole priority. While appearance is important in any relationship, what truly matters is connecting with a real person who will accept and love us for who we are. And not for what we can do for them. How can we work towards finding this person, or what can we do to help us find this person? Unfortunately, there isn't a magic pill that we can take to know what to look for or how we should act. However, to help, I have put together seven tips that can assist you in finding that form of love. So, let's get started, so we can be one step closer to finding true love. 7 Tips for Finding Genuine Love 1. Be yourself; Remember to be authentic and genuine - embrace your true self. People are drawn to authenticity, and it will help you filter out poor matches and attract those who resonate with you. Pretending to be something you're not

  12 Things men want in relationships without Saying! Wrote By: Rose Joseph (J.J) In every woman's life, there is a recurring question: "What do men want in a relationship?" I have pondered over this question several times. Since we can't read their minds and they are often reluctant to discuss it, we are left to guess. While it's commonly believed that most men prioritize physical intimacy, there must be more to it. To gain clarity on this issue, I surveyed over 500 men. This approach allowed us to obtain direct insights without engaging them in direct conversation. I have compiled the top 12 things that men want in a relationship, and I'm eager to share this valuable information with you. "Please note that these questions were asked to men in a relationship or seeking one, not for casual encounters. Additionally, please understand that the survey does not represent the views of all men, but aims to provide a general ideal." Now, let's get to it

  Signs You Are Self-Sabotaging! Sometimes life can be challenging. When life gets tough, we can take one of two paths: we can work on improving the situation, or we can start self-sabotaging. Believe me, if we choose to go down the path of self-sabotage, it's hard to get out of it. Not only that, when we start self-sabotaging, we can ruin any relationships we have. Many people start self-sabotaging because of relationships., however, that isn't the only reason people start. Whatever the reason for your self-sabotage, believe me, that isn't the way to deal with the situation. You could be self-sabotaging and not even know it. If you're unsure whether you are or if it's a way that you have dealt with problems in the past, there is always time to change. Below is a list of signs that you are or have self-sabotaged in the past. Not asking for help or A need for control;   You do this because of failures, and you think that if you're in control, you can change the o

  Love Others But Love Yourself More In our busy lives, we often neglect activities that bring us joy while impacting our emotional and physical well-being. It's important to prioritize our health, even amidst our hectic schedules. Sometimes it's hard to figure out where to begin or find the time to do so. Here are a few simple suggestions to help enhance your overall well-being.   For your physical health, make time to exercise regularly, even if it's just for five minutes a day. You could take a short walk. Remember to try to eat healthy meals, which can be hard if you're always on the go or not at home much. You could try dried fruit snacks. Try to stay hydrated and drink water throughout the day. We all love our coffee, soda, energy drinks, etc., but make sure to add water to your routine. Lastly, try to get enough sleep. I know this is a hard one, even for myself. But if we don't get the right amount of sleep, it can affect our whole life and our day. Not only

  4 Pros & 4 Cons Of Long-Distance Relationships! When it comes to relationships, making it work can be difficult. These are pros and cons to every relationship. One of the most challenging types of relationship to work on is a long-distance relationship. Understanding the pros and cons of long-distance relationship could help us comprehend our feelings and the dynamics of these relationships. By understanding our long-distance relationships, we may be able to make them work or understand why they didn't work out. Let's explore the advantages of being in a long-distance relationship and identify the qualities that contribute to its growth. (1) Communication is essential in any relationship. Without effective communication, the relationship is likely to fail. This is especially important in long-distance relationship, where communication happens primarily through phone or video calls. Misunderstandings can arise if communication is lacking, so it's crucial to prioritize