Love Talk 911

  Reasons We Allow Them To Treat Us Poorly &  How To Stop This Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)    When it comes to our feelings about others, we may start questioning some of the feelings we are having. We might also find ourselves questioning the feelings that others are having about us. I have helped so many people over the years who either have feelings for someone who treats them poorly, or they treat someone poorly and the other person still loves or overlooks it. Why is this? Well, there are several reasons why someone might still show you love after you have mistreated them, or why you are allowing someone to treat you poorly and you still show them love!    So, what are a few of these reasons and why do we deal with this over and over again? 1. Childhood trauma: The way they act might make you feel like you can't trust them, or like you're not good enough, or that you'll be abandoned again. These feelings might be rooted in childhood experiences, making it tough

  Restoring Trust With Our Partner After  Breaking It! Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)     Let's discuss the topic of trust. Losing trust can make it seem nearly impossible to regain once broken. It's even harder when it comes to the person we love and that is supposed to love us. Rebuilding trust with our partners can be a difficult task. How can we begin restoring trust with our partners after we break it? If you have ever been hurt because someone broke your trust, then you know how that feels. Below are some tips you can do to help restore the trust they lost in you! 1. One thing we can do is apologize for whatever you did that caused them to lose trust in you, and make a promise not to do it again and stick with it . 2. Let yourself be " Raw With Emotions ," if you feel bad for what you did show it in your emotions. ( Don't be afraid to cry, grieve, and talk about your pain with your partner .) 3.  Do not Ignore what happened in the first place. Owning up to

  You Know Your Grown, With Your  Bullshit Levels Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)    When we are teenagers, we can't wait to grow up. But during that time we don't really think about what it means or how we even know that we are grown. You know you're grown when your life changes completely; it will do a 180-degree turnaround. And to be honest with you, your bullshit meter will be a lot lower. Meaning you don't have time for people's bullshit. At least not like you did when you were younger! So, here are a few signs that you're grown and your bullshit meter is lower! 1. Opinions; You don't care what others think about you, because it's irrelevant. The only relevant thing is your doing what matters to you. 2. Time; You don't have time to waste on others. If it doesn't involve you, then it doesn't matter. 3. Drama; Drama is a thing of the past, you only worry about your problems and not sticking your nose in other people's business. Nor do

  Signs A Friend Is A Wolf In Sheep's Clothing Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.) It's always good to have friends in our lives. Without friends, we wouldn't have a good social life, and a good social life is healthy. However, our social life can also cause us harm if we don't truly know the people we surround ourselves with. We have all heard the saying "Beware of Wolf in Sheep's Clothing." Even if we have heard that a thousand times, it doesn't mean it is easy. So, how can we tell if the group of friends in our social circle are true friends or if they are wolves in sheep's clothing? Believe me, it isn't easy figuring it out. I have had both in my life, and sometimes figuring it out too late can cause more problems than we want. Below you will find a few signs that can help you identify who is a true friend and who is hiding right in front of us. Look at the picture, can you see the wolf? Which one am I? 1. Manipulation: They may use tactics such

  Should We Change For The One We Love? Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)    Sometimes we meet someone and we feel like they are our whole world. We feel like we would do everything and anything for them. It's okay to feel that way, but there is a fine line between doing everything and anything for them. It's okay to want to help them, be there for them, share with them, and love and care for them. But there are things that we shouldn't have to do or change for them.    It's good to be able to change for someone we love, but feeling like you have to change things we normally wouldn't is something completely different. So, what are some things we could change for the person we love and what are things we shouldn't change for someone even if we love them? A few things you can and should charge if love someone: 1. Communication; If you're not big on communication this is something you may want to work on changing. If you love someone and can't communicate with

  How To Tell She Loves'You!! Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.) When we have feelings for someone, all we want to know is if they have the same feelings or at least feel something for us. How can we tell if someone has genuine feelings for us, instead of lust? I strongly believe that we can overlook what is right in front of us and misunderstand our own feelings, perhaps seeing and believing something that isn't actually there. So, how can we tell? Do men and women show the same signs? I think that there are some shared signs, but there are also differences. When she loves you, you will see it in everything she does and says. So, what are some of these signs that let you know " She Loves You? " 1. She makes time for you: She will try to spend more time with you. If she doesn't love you, she will put you on the back burner til she wants something. 2. She will remember the details: She will remember small things you talk about like your birthday, things you enjoy, your