What Is Your Love Language?
Written By: Rose Joseph (J.J.)
We all love and want to be loved differently, but we often don't think about it enough. If we understand how we love and how we want to be loved, our relationships could be smoother.
For example, if your ex always wanted physical touch and you didn't like it, likely, your love language isn't physical touch. Similarly, if you want physical touch and your partner doesn't show it, this can cause problems in your relationship. That's why it's important to know your love language.
There are various ways to find out your love language, such as taking online quizzes and reading articles. In this article, we will discuss the five different love languages to give you a better understanding of each one. We may show love differently than how we want to receive it. For example; we may show love with physical touch but want to receive it with words of affirmation, gifts, etc.
So, let's jump right into it! And remember, Love languages are different ways people express and receive love. Some examples of love languages include:
Physical Touch: When someone's love language is physical touch they value feeling loved through hugs, kisses, and other physical affection. They may also enjoy small touches on their back, legs, and arms. If your partner shows their feelings of love by touching you all the time, wanting to hold your hand then most likely they show love with physical touch. In the same way, if they don't want to be touched all the time, they don't want to receive love this way.
Acts of Service: People who value acts of service feel loved through thoughtful gestures that show someone is going out of their way to help and support them. For example, someone who values acts of service might appreciate it when their partner cooks for them or cleans around the house, etc. If they show love through acts of service they will enjoy doing things for you. Keep in mind, that if they're not doing these small little things it doesn't mean they don't love you, it's just not how they show their feelings.
Words of Affirmation: This one is simple they tell you how they feel. Words of affirmation can be a powerful way to show care. They will make sure you're not left guessing about how they are feeling; they will openly tell you. They will also remind you that they love you or miss you when you're not together. However, this isn't how some individuals show their love. If they aren't telling you they love you, it doesn't mean they don't. If you need to hear it, just talk to your partner and let them know.
Receiving Gifts: Individuals who value receiving gifts feel loved when their partner chooses something special or surprises them. For example, someone who values receiving gifts might enjoy flowers, candy, jewelry, etc. However, not everyone will express their love in the same way or even want to receive it in the same way. So if you're giving them gifts and they don't want them, pay attention; all they may need is to hear it.
The last one is Quality Time: Individuals who value quality time feel loved through spending dedicated time together and receiving undivided attention. They may feel more loved when you are doing things together, and feel like you don't care for them if you're not spending time together. So, if your partner wants to be with you all the time, it might just be their way of showing love or their way of needing to receive love from you.
Now that you have a better understanding of the different types of love languages out there, hopefully, you will understand why your partner does things the way they do. Even if they show love differently than you, it doesn't mean they don't love you - they just love differently. Use this understanding to help your relationship. Have a conversation with your partner and ask them how they like to receive love and let them know how you like to receive it.
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